The Silent Struggle: Brain Fog in Midlife Women, and How Brain Health Coaching Can Help

 




The Silent Struggle: Brain Fog in Midlife Women, and How Brain Health Coaching Can Help

By Marilyn Abrahamson, MA,CCC-SLP


You’re sharp. You’re successful. You’ve built a career over decades of grit, intellect, and commitment. You're managing a team, juggling meetings, keeping clients happy, and balancing a million moving parts in your personal life. And then—suddenly—it feels like your brain isn’t keeping up.

You forget the name of someone you’ve known for years. You lose your train of thought mid-sentence. You reread the same paragraph three times and still can’t absorb it. You find yourself snapping at colleagues or family members—your patience, once a strength, is wearing thin.

What’s happening?

If you're a woman in midlife or beyond, you may be experiencing brain fog. And you’re far from alone.

But here’s the catch:
Most women don’t talk about it.

They’re embarrassed, ashamed, and anxious, worried this might be the beginning of cognitive decline… or worse, dementia.

They question their competence.

They worry about being pushed out or passed over, especially in corporate settings where younger colleagues are climbing the ladder right behind them.

They suffer silently, trying to push through with sheer willpower and caffeine.

And they blame themselves.

As a speech-language pathologist-turned-brain health coach and educator, with nearly four decades of experience helping people improve their cognition, I see this scenario play out far too often. Midlife women, many in the prime of their careers, are silently struggling with something they were never warned about, never prepared for, and often don’t fully understand.

Let’s be clear:

Brain fog is real. It’s common. And it’s not your fault.

Hormonal shifts during perimenopause and menopause affect brain function. So do chronic stress, poor sleep, nutritional deficits, and unmanaged health risks like blood sugar imbalances and inflammation. But because brain fog isn’t always discussed openly, or recognized as legitimate, many women internalize the struggle.

They fear speaking up will label them as “less capable.”

They avoid talking to their doctors, who might dismiss their concerns or chalk it up to stress.

They push through alone, all the while losing confidence in their cognitive abilities.

Here’s the good news:
You can do something about it.

Brain fog is not a permanent condition. With the right support, it can be managed, and in many cases, reversed.

That’s where brain health coaching and training come in.

What Does Brain Health Coaching Do?

Brain health coaching takes a proactive, science-based approach to help you reclaim your cognitive clarity. It's not about treating illness—it's about building resilience and creating a personalized strategy to work with your brain, not against it.

My programs for women in midlife and beyond combine:

  • Mindset & lifestyle adjustments to calm the nervous system and rebalance your brain chemistry.
  • Daily navigation strategies to reduce overwhelm and increase productivity.
  • Targeted brain training to strengthen attention, memory, and executive function skills.

This is not a one-size-fits-all solution. You’ll learn how your brain works, why things are changing, and what to do about it.

Because you deserve to feel in control of your mind again.

Because you should not have to sit in meetings silently, panicking that you’ll forget what you were about to say.

Because your brilliance didn’t disappear—it just needs support to shine through this stage of life.

Whether you prefer the privacy of one-on-one coaching or the camaraderie of a small group program, there is help, and there is hope.

Ready to Clear the Fog?

Visit www.longliveyourbrain.com to learn more about my brain health coaching programs, specifically designed for women like you—women who’ve worked too hard to lose their edge now.

Let’s make sure your best thinking years are still ahead of you.



MARILYN ABRAHAMSON, MA, CCC-SLP is a brain health education specialist and coach, and creator of the ©Long Live Your Brain program, an online group brain health coaching program for women in midlife and beyond striving for more reliable memory, attention, and clearer thinking. She is the creator of BrainTrain, online and in-person brain training group classes. In addition, she is the co-author of two e-workbooks in the Life Happens...series: Chemo Fog: Regain Clarity and Build Cognitive Reserve and Concussion and Other Acquired Brain Injuries: A workbook for recovery and resilience. Both are available on Kindle at Amazon.
More information about Marilyn's programs can be found at www.longliveyourbrain.com. Marilyn has been a Speech-Language Pathologist since 1987.

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